You should ask your mom how to become a better blogger

23rd November 2009 ~ Awesome Post, Blogging to Awesomeness

motherblogger You should ask your mom how to become a better bloggerAre you a mother? Or are you a father?

Either of that or neither, you should already know what are the quality to become a good mother, and that quality is really useful in blogging that why learning from a mother really help you to become better blogger.

What I mean here is not ‘mother’ is a good blogger or better blogger than us (men) but if you use the quality of a good mother, don’t care whether you’re a men or women or just a kid you absolutely will become a better blogger.

Let we do a simple activity shall we?, think about ‘what are the quality of good mother?’ For me I go with -

1. a loving mother and know how to show it

2. caring – correct us when we wrong and praise us when we right

3. reply with a smile when we angry

4. always give without asking anything for return

5. always have time for use when we in need.

So how those qualities can help you become a better blogger? Let me assure you, you don’t need to blog about parenting to apply all the qualities, because it not idea for your blog post, but it is the qualities that you should have as blogger.  Here how to apply the qualities -

A Loving mother and know how to show it

You shouldn’t just love your blog, but you also need to love your reader and show to them that you actually love them.  How to love them and how to show it?  Simple provide and give what the want, let say for my blog my reader come and read my blog post to learn more about blogging, so I show them that I love them all by try my best to give new knowledge that can help them in my blog post.  So love your reader and show it that you do.

Caring – correct us when we wrong and praise us when we right

Other than love your reader you should also care your reader especially when people looking for you if they have problem.  Sometime they comment in your blog and try to give their opinion, you should correct them if they wrong and praise the if they right, because they take time to comment you should take time to at least say thank you to their effort.  Like mother care of her kids you should also care your reader.

Reply with a smile when we angry

Mother yes sometime they do mad at us and angry at us, but most of the time, we the one who actually angry with them but what she do, she reply with a smile.  And as blogger you should learn how to make it as your way of blogging.  Sometime people disagree with what you write and even angry with it, they accuse you that, they shitty you this so what should you do? Shitty them back? No, you should reply with a good word and ask what their problem with you so that you can fix it and actually build a relationship with them, turn the hater into your reader.

Always give without looking without asking for return

This quality not only mother should have but everyone should have it especially blogger.  You blog is giving tips let say about design, you should always give them what they want and don’t push them to give you something back, that just not nice.  I hope in every post I can give something useful for you, and I’m not looking any return from it yes of course I much appreciate if you could give a thought about it and share the post. Thank if you do.

Always have time for us when we in need

Yes we can’t always be 24/7 for our reader, but at least when they asking for help or inquiry about something do reply to them as soon as possible, maybe they really in need and good mother always have time for her kids and you should always spent some time for your reader, we talk about connecting aren’t we?  Be good to your reader, always have time for your reader, simple.

Let recap, to become a better blogger you should love your reader and show it, care about your reader, negative comment do make it positive, don’t give because you want your reader to give something back and always have time to help your reader – that all the qualities that good blogger and mother share.

Let return to our activity above, so what you think a quality of good mother that you can use in blogging?  How you apply above qualities in your blog?  Do you agree or disagree with the points? and share with us why.

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38 Responses to “You should ask your mom how to become a better blogger”

  1. Comment by titan · November 23, 2009 @ 2:17 pm

    hoho..i don’t think my mom know about my blog..

  2. Comment by Ariff · November 23, 2009 @ 3:55 pm

    now, now. i guess it is enough already to treat your blog like you treat your girlfriend. hah!
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  3. Comment by ain_chokio · November 23, 2009 @ 4:02 pm

    dude..i agree wif u..but shudnt u be a father in dis case??ahaks..
    readers will go away from ur blog if u dun appreciate them..ive done dis once n now i noe how to be a better blogger..i mean..i noe better how 2 appreciate them..n i dun quite agree wif bloggers who foloe my blog jus because they wanted me to foloe them back..for me, blogging is liking wut u read n u get sumtin from it..benefits, privileges, funny stories which cant make u stop laughing..yup..dats it..

    errr..did i nag 2 much dis tym??ahaks..hepi reading lol..=)
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  4. Comment by Himanshu · November 23, 2009 @ 4:22 pm

    This is the post I expect from an Indian Blogger, I love your writing style, keep writing like this, you will reach at the top within months. Bookmarked your blog.

  5. Comment by Phaoloo · November 23, 2009 @ 5:16 pm

    I like this post and your writing style. Dunno that our moms have qualities a great blogger must have. Tweet it.
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  6. Comment by zuls · November 23, 2009 @ 6:39 pm

    hrm.. blogging sure takes time.. and mom should always stay energetic for her children. Me? Not up to that level yet.
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  8. Comment by Aswani · November 23, 2009 @ 7:42 pm

    Completely agree with you..my friend. Very nice post. Keep up the good work :)
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  9. Comment by izzat aziz · November 23, 2009 @ 8:40 pm

    about father will be on future post, i will talk about it too :)

  10. Comment by izzat aziz · November 23, 2009 @ 8:41 pm

    thank for that praise, appreciate it.. i need to do lot more than top to be at least reaching the top :)

    btw i’m not indian blogger.

  11. Comment by izzat aziz · November 23, 2009 @ 8:42 pm

    thank for sharing it :)

  12. Comment by ellenyna · November 23, 2009 @ 11:05 pm

    i LIKE ! :)

  13. Comment by techprism · November 24, 2009 @ 12:26 am

    Ya, But we are bloggers & will tell our children, grand childs that how you can blog better.
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  14. Comment by Taranfx · November 24, 2009 @ 12:45 am

    I guess we are making lots of “Blogging Families” ;)
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  15. Comment by izzat aziz · November 24, 2009 @ 1:40 am

    i have plan for that too :)

  16. Comment by steppinout · November 24, 2009 @ 2:14 am

    You always amaze me with the way you deliver your idea. Good one izzat.
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  17. Comment by izzat aziz · November 24, 2009 @ 2:36 am

    thanks glad you like it :)

  18. Comment by Sahil Kotak · November 24, 2009 @ 4:02 am

    That’s nice post, I always agree with topics like this, Caring of blog is really good thing and if do so your blog would be also good.

    Thanks
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  19. Comment by Marlene · November 24, 2009 @ 4:16 am

    I thought you really mean asking my mother how to become a good blogger, because I can’t do it, my mother doesn’t know about computer and blogging. :-)

    But I got your point after reading the post. It’s definitely the qualities of a mother that we become a good blogger. Cheers for this post.
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  20. Comment by Dana @ Online Knowledge · November 24, 2009 @ 5:22 am

    you surely get right how mother qualify can make our blogging in best state here. Great article!
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  21. Comment by izzat aziz · November 24, 2009 @ 7:21 am

    thank too for like it :)

  22. Comment by izzat aziz · November 24, 2009 @ 7:21 am

    thanks.. :)

  23. Comment by izzat aziz · November 24, 2009 @ 7:22 am

    its true.. we just need to watch and observer :)

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  25. Comment by Incik RestNrilekS · November 24, 2009 @ 2:48 pm

    Thanks again Izzat for sharing something with us. : )

    I like this : “Always give without looking without asking for return” best.

    Happy tuesday Izzat : )
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  26. Comment by elmot · November 24, 2009 @ 4:32 pm

    Nice way of delivering your thought. Quite an innovative and unorthodox way of doing it.

    Keep up the nice job Bro. :D
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  27. Comment by George Serradinho · November 24, 2009 @ 5:34 pm

    I am a great father and would like to think that my blog is well looked after. There was another post wherby the author says we must treat our blogs as if it were our girlfriend, with care and love.
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  28. Comment by izzat aziz · November 25, 2009 @ 12:12 am

    thanks :)
    keep the comment coming.. appreciate it.

  29. Comment by izzat aziz · November 25, 2009 @ 12:14 am

    i did the same post here.. love your blog like you love your girlfriend.. :)
    thank you hope you enjoy the post.

  30. Comment by Gabe | freebloghelp.com · November 25, 2009 @ 12:45 am

    I’m a father of two (and one on the way) and I treat my sites as step children. They require so much nurturing!
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  31. Comment by fitzgerald kosowski · November 25, 2009 @ 1:10 pm

    totally agree with you, i always practice these things before this, somehow i lost the passion now.dope!
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  32. Comment by nazra · November 26, 2009 @ 4:06 pm

    i love to treat my blog as my boyfie. that’s totally suitable for me :D
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  33. Comment by Dennis Edell · November 29, 2009 @ 7:13 am

    A very good analogy Izzat, great job. ;)
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  34. Comment by Tycoon Blogger · November 30, 2009 @ 8:00 am

    What a clever post! Great analogy and great tips. BTW, I will be including this post in my “Sunday’s Best” weekly round up.
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  35. Comment by izzat aziz · November 30, 2009 @ 9:23 pm

    that good too :)

  36. Comment by izzat aziz · November 30, 2009 @ 9:23 pm

    come on fire back the passion :)

  37. Comment by izzat aziz · November 30, 2009 @ 9:24 pm

    thank hope you benefit from it :D

  38. Comment by izzat aziz · November 30, 2009 @ 9:24 pm

    thank you so much for consider to include my post :)