Let talk about love shall we? But this is not personal blog so it not about love your wife or love your cat love your neighbor but this is about loving your blog.  Before I go further I need to ask one very much important question, did you love your blog? If you don’t maybe should just check other post, leave this post only for who love their blog.

we love blogIts true that blog is only a place to write and place to share whatever you think.  But there is no reason you shouldn’t love your blog, it is not weird couple stuff – you can love your blog like you love your girlfriend but in blog ways.  So how to love your blog like you love your girlfriend/boyfriend -

1.  Always give to her whatever her need – Of course we still talk about blog, her here mean your blog, the most important thing that blog need is content.  Content is what make blog, blog – without content you can’t call it blog.. and content also need frequently updated so that you satisfy her need.  Maybe blog can’t show expression or complaining but if she could and you not updating the content, I believe she will be crying out loud asking for new content/post because that what make her alive.

2.  Make sure everyone know her – Maybe this is not apply to real life girlfriend but for blog, yes you should make her popular, so that everyone notice her.  I know you understand what I mean – traffic.  After you give her need, which is content after that you should make sure that people know about it, content without people to read it is kinda useless.  How to get traffic for her, well there are many ways to get traffic but some of it you can read - I read 100 blogs per day and its fun.

3.  Always say something good to her – It somewhat different from real life, if in real life you should say something good to your girlfriend/boyfriend so that she/he feel ease, but for blog not you but other people should say something good to her, hence commenting.  I know for some reasons comment is not that important, but if you love your blog you should make sure she got enough content so that she feel more valuable. How to do that? Of course you must satisfy all her need of above matter, and build your own community or readership.

4.  Buy her nice and quality dress – All women want to look good, so as blog, yes love is blind but if you love your blog you should buy her very nice and also good in quality dress or theme in blogging term.  A starter like me maybe doesn’t need to worry about theme, but don’t put it aside because theme is very important to make sure your blog more stand up than other blog.  Currently I’m using this theme because it look clean and also I never see anyone use it before even it free themes, even it free I will edit it to make sure it look different from it original form.  But I am  planning to buy thesis theme[affiliate link] because it probably the best premium theme available and elegant themes[affiliate link] have good quality themes too.  You should get better or unique theme, if you think your current theme not good enough.

5.  Make sure she stay at good home – Last but not least you definitely must give her with good house – which is hosting.  This only apply if you use your own hosting not blogger.com or wordpress.com, hosting is important to make sure that she live happily ever after(?), maybe for now I shouldn’t care much about hosting since my blog not that busy but still you should at least using hosting that have good customer service, uptime and speed.  Currently I’m very happy with my hosting, but maybe will change to better hosting in future.

Those are some ways to show your love to your blog, there are many other ways and I leave it to you to give it in comment section, so what did you do to show that you love your blog? If there is any point above that you do, how you do it?  Really appreciate if there are more feedback about it.

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40 Responses to “How to love your blog like you love your girlfriend”

  1. Comment by Phaoloo · November 14, 2009 @ 4:14 pm

    Really like the opening, are you a programmer?
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  2. Comment by nazra · November 14, 2009 @ 5:32 pm

    i prefer blog if i have to choose between blog or a guy. on the other hand, i don’t mind being single as long as i got my own MyVi SE

    owh very weird persamaan matematik there :D
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  3. Comment by chah · November 14, 2009 @ 5:45 pm

    hoho. i luv my blog more than i luv my bf.. haha. sangat kejam. that statement comes with a reason oke. coz i’m single. my blog is my bf. hhohoho..
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  4. Comment by Fathiha Zainal · November 14, 2009 @ 6:09 pm

    Wow! What a nice share! Really like this! By the way, u put some codes up there.. That’s very creative! =)
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  5. Comment by Pallab · November 14, 2009 @ 6:35 pm

    Really nice article. Loved your writing style.
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  6. Comment by Lizz · November 14, 2009 @ 6:37 pm

    my god! hey, i love this article so much lah wei. hehehe.

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  8. Comment by ikanstim · November 14, 2009 @ 7:33 pm

    freebies sometimes look cooler than paid one ma.. no need to buy “her” clothes.
    not agree with u izzat aziz. i declare war!

  9. Comment by Sire · November 14, 2009 @ 7:38 pm

    What a great post izzat aziz. One must surely love their blog if they wish to succeed as a blogger. It is the ultimate companionship in blogger term. Like a man and a wife. If a man respects his wife and a wife her husband they will bear fruit an multiply. And so it is with a blogger and his blog.
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  10. Comment by Tinh · November 14, 2009 @ 10:29 pm

    Hi but I love my blog rather than my girldfriend sometimes
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  11. Comment by samanosuke_04 · November 14, 2009 @ 11:04 pm

    good… i’ll apply these tips on a real girlfren.. haha!
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  12. Comment by told la hejauw · November 14, 2009 @ 11:29 pm

    erk….blog or bf??
    = blog

    blog or food??
    = hoho difficult 2 choose…

    blog or sleep??
    = erk..more tough..hahha
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  13. Comment by ain_chokio · November 15, 2009 @ 2:47 am

    i love my blog..but not more than i love myself..=)
    how do i show my love to my blog eh?? no matter how busy i am, i will definitely spend at least 5 mins visiting my blog..huhu
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  14. Comment by Marlene · November 15, 2009 @ 5:34 am

    I do love my blog that I feel guilty if I can’t update it. Funny how you compare about loving a blog and loving a girlfriend/boyfriend. Some points do apply to blogging. :-)
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  15. Comment by VIVEK · November 15, 2009 @ 6:51 am

    I take care of my blog better than I care of my girlfriend !!
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  16. Comment by izzat aziz · November 15, 2009 @ 12:45 pm

    i learn a bit programmer.. but am i a programmer.. i don’t think so.. maybe just a small time web designer.. :)

  17. Comment by izzat aziz · November 15, 2009 @ 12:46 pm

    if you have a guy in future i believe you will him more.. :)

  18. Comment by izzat aziz · November 15, 2009 @ 12:46 pm

    i glad if you like it :)

  19. Comment by izzat aziz · November 15, 2009 @ 12:46 pm

    thanks.. :)

  20. Comment by izzat aziz · November 15, 2009 @ 12:47 pm

    that absolutely true. thank for that insightful comment.

  21. Comment by izzat aziz · November 15, 2009 @ 12:48 pm

    i always love my girlfriend more than blog :)

  22. Comment by izzat aziz · November 15, 2009 @ 12:48 pm

    blog should be second on every of it.. but should have time for blog too :)

  23. Comment by izzat aziz · November 15, 2009 @ 12:49 pm

    if you love your blog you can follow above steps.. :)

  24. Comment by izzat aziz · November 15, 2009 @ 12:49 pm

    sometime i feel the same thing.. hope the point can help you ;)

  25. Comment by Ariff · November 15, 2009 @ 3:12 pm

    haha. this is fancy. my gf will kill me if i treat my blog better than i treat her
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  26. Comment by Ariff · November 15, 2009 @ 3:54 pm

    she’s ok with that vivek?
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  27. Comment by Ariff · November 15, 2009 @ 3:56 pm

    what about u lizz, u take care of your blog like taking care o your bf too?
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  28. Comment by ikanstim · November 15, 2009 @ 3:58 pm

    it’ll not work
    girls are far more complex than a web blog
    haha
    dats y its easier to hadle blog than handle a girl

  29. Comment by Ariff · November 15, 2009 @ 4:33 pm

    wa.. very sorry for your bf
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  30. Comment by lawmacs · November 15, 2009 @ 5:38 pm

    What can i say this is very creative writing well thouht out and put together however i would love to have more ladies views and this i really like the genius behind the writing

  31. Comment by Surender Sharma · November 16, 2009 @ 1:38 am

    Hey,
    I love my blog and it’s not a duty or business but it’s my passion.I am agree in many topics in the post comparing GF and blog but few things not implements in real life.
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  32. Comment by Dana @ Online Knowledge · November 16, 2009 @ 7:57 am

    And there is our lovely blog. :D
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  33. Comment by ravi · November 16, 2009 @ 11:25 pm

    Great post, very informative. Have learned a lot from your site.

  34. Comment by Dennis Edell · November 17, 2009 @ 3:26 am

    Very creative Izzat, kudos!
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  35. Comment by izzat aziz · November 17, 2009 @ 10:36 am

    thank you for that kind word.
    appreciate it so much and hope you enjoy the post :)

  36. Comment by izzat aziz · November 17, 2009 @ 10:37 am

    of course real life somewhat different than blog, but
    some of it we can implement it on blog :)

  37. Comment by George Serradinho · November 20, 2009 @ 2:56 pm

    Wow, I do love my blog a lot. I try and give her the best possible and she does her best to show me her love. I say she as I need to handle her like a women, give attention and love, be there when she needs me at a moments notice.

    BTW, I will be adding this post to my Monday roundup next week. Want to see if other love their blog or not.
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  38. Comment by izzat aziz · November 20, 2009 @ 3:17 pm

    good to hear that.. :)
    thank for consider this post for your roundup

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  40. Comment by arrizz · November 28, 2009 @ 12:58 am

    way to go bro..very nice comparison! salute2..haha
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